Be Good To me

A lot has happened since the last time I blogged, and I haven’t blogged about my life at home in a really long time. So I’m going to now. I don’t like blogging about my life at home because I always receive comparison/contrast comments, and sometimes I just don’t want them. If you can relate, then that’s OK. But I don’t want to hear about your friend – it isn’t your friend who is reading and commenting my blog, it’s YOU, therefore I want your relation/etc. >.< Not a friend’s.

If you’ve nothing to say – or you don’t want to read this [probably] ridiculously long entry – then read my previous one. It’s short; maybe it’ll float your boat and tickle your fancy.


Remember the whole money situation with Mimi? How she had money, bought boots, and now she’s “broke”, but I know she has money, because she spends it on various things – or has Tommy spend his money – that only include her and/or Tommy. Or even Pat, maybe, because he’s the favorite1

Anyway, a couple nights ago2 Mimi told me that she may move in with Bebe (my aunt), and that I’ll have to go stay with my mom or my dad because she’s going to “shut down” the house, AKA turn off all of the electricity. I was already planning on looking and applying for jobs, so that hasn’t changed anything. I just have to work twice as hard now, because she won’t be paying my cell phone bill anymore. However, I do still have FAFSA money left over from this semester, and since the remaining money is mine now, I could always use that. I will not drive without a working cell phone. If I cannot find my phone, I won’t go anywhere. I’m too afraid of getting lost and/or something bad happening. I feel way too helpless without my phone, and what if something does happen? No one would know where I was/what happened…3

A few weeks ago (or maybe just one?) my mom and I found a printed piece of copy paper with a house on it – and a Real Estate agent’s picture and phone number. Edgewood, Texas. Mimi said it was for Susan, a friend of hers. Um, really? Mom and I are still too fishy about that.

The house is $99,000. It would explain everything. >.< And why would Mimi stay at Bebe’s? Why not just fully move in with Tommy? I mean, she’s retiring this year, so she would spend most of her time with Bebe, anyway. According to her, she and Tommy decided that she would retire this year.

Everything’s such a mess, and I really don’t like it. She won’t sell the property; she said she wouldn’t; she better not. 😐

I don’t remember what it’s called, but she was going to keep her 55 acres in the family for 100 years, and then it could be donated to some USA organization of farm and whatnot. Again, I don’t remember what it was called. But I’d have grandchildren by 2080 something. >.> It was as if the family would be guaranteed a place to live and/or hang onto in the future. Ugh.

It’s really frustrating.

But my mom said that Lard wants to put two more walls in the office/game room/area so an extra room would be made – just in case I want to/have to move in. It’d be small, though, and it would be Carrie’s room. I would have Carrie’s room, which has two closets, and Carrie would have one of the closets for her clothes. I thought that was really sweet. I was surprised, to be honest.

It would be nice. Maybe then I’d be able to have a desk, you know? I don’t have any room in my current room, but I wouldn’t have to move everything over here to my mom’s all at once, or maybe even at all. I could just go over there during the day time.

I’m starting a Hope Chest. My dad told me about hope chests last year. I’m going to start one. It’ll be more of a modern/up-to-date one, though. I’ll explain more later, unless someone has a better explanation of what I mean because they think they know what I mean? 😛


Beefly.me is open. Enjoy.

  1. Mimi has favorites. Tommy’s Mimi’s boyfriend, by the way. Pat, or Patrick, is my youngest brother. I think he is the favorite because he is into what they are into the most. Sure, Mimi’s other grandchildren (including myself) are somewhat interested in country-related things and activities, but he is interested the most. He also gets anything he wants from her, and if you mention that to her, she will deny it and become really angry and defensive. But it’s true. Actions speak louder than words.
  2. Maybe it was Monday night. Or maybe it was Saturday night, because … Yes. It was Saturday night. Because I remember telling my mom on Sunday, and my mom had company over.
  3. If your cell phone is turned off, you can still call 911, but they can’t track your phone.

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Erin Nicole’s gravatar

That would really explain why Mimi doesn’t have enough money. Why she wouldn’t tell y’all about it is a different story. I mean, I don’t see anything wrong with what she did if she did buy that house, but hey, it’s her decision.

Wow…A lot has really happened to you since you blogged last, or at least the last time you blogged about your offline life.

How did you get that media section on your footer? Is that a plugin or did you just find those images online? That is pretty cool. 🙂 If I were to do anything like that I would only have the email, facebook, twitter, google, chat bubble, msn, rss, twitter, wordpress, youtube, hosting, credits, & admin links. Mine would be probably just 2 lines if I had the same width as you do.

I’m working on a new layout so I am looking at the layouts other people have. I really need a new one up on InkedByErin.info so I am going to start and finish it today. 🙂

Liz’s gravatar

@Erin Nicole,

She’s pushing everyone away, and no one in the family likes Tommy, except Chris and Mary. Everyone can merely tolerate him. It’s really frustrating because she doesn’t even seem to care that she’s pushing everyone away and that we’d like to spend at least a week away from anything concerning Tommy. It’s quite annoying, really.

She denies anything she doesn’t want to hear, too, and I keep having to hear about this financial crap she’s having to deal with.

The problem with her moving is just that: Before Tommy, she’s never wanted to move. She always changes for guys, and she always ends up unhappy. So many things that were supposed to happen won’t now because of him.

I manually added it. I don’t remember where I got the social media icons from; I just searched for them on Google. I’ve been meaning to get the credits up. I’ll have to do that tomorrow, since I don’t have time tonight. I lack the patience as well.

I have the .zip file, though. I think it has four different sizes. I’ll look at it later for the website credit/link I got it from. ^^

I just changed mine. :3 I’m really happy with it, to be honest. 😀

I don’t want to have too many domain names, is my point. I have ously.me and beefly.me. I just moved beefly.me to my 6birds.net cPanel, and I didn’t take a backup on cents.beefly.me. Whoops. Oh well. I’m going to completely redo it, anyone. 😛

Haha, alright. I will. 🙂

Erin Nicole’s gravatar

oops. I forgot to return your comment. You can edit this one and put it in the other one if you wish.

Yeah, that annoys me too but hey, can’t be picky if you want netflix on your TV. 🙂

Is $20 cheap to renew? I mean, that doesn’t seem like it. Your sentence seemed backwards… 0.o
This is what you said, “I chose not to use centsgone.info because .me domains are $20 or so to renew each year! 🙁 …And I have two. :/”

Well, if you ever want to check out my hosting in the future, let me know. 🙂

Christine’s gravatar

That would bother me about selling the property as well. That’s something that has been in your family for so long, and to be able to pass it down to future generations would be something that grandchildren would appreciate and enjoy, in my opinion. Did she give you any notice about “shutting down the house?” I don’t understand how someone cold simply up and leave and call it a day? Doesn’t make sense to me…

I do hope that everything gets sorted soon. It’s tough when you have family stress going on.

Stephanie’s gravatar

Man, that sounds annoying. I hate to say it, but it seems like your grandmother just never grew up because she seems very immature, especially with her attitude towards guys. And that sums up my reaction basically.

$99,000 isn’t a lot of money for a house. Then again, I’ve only lived in New England and California, where nobody, not even most farmers, owns 55 continuous acres of land and where anything under 100,000 gets you a house that’s falling apart.

Personally, I try not to leave “me too!” comments, unless I think that it’d help someone. I don’t mind when people give them to me, but the post is not about me, it’s about you – so I try to talk about you in the comment.

Hope that this all gets resolved soon!

Liz’s gravatar

@Stephanie,
Awhh! Your Maintenance Mode theme is adorable! 😛

Here, $99k is quite a lot for a house – especially for Edgewood. 🙁

I get a lot of my friend this and my friend that comments, and they’re quite irritating. I don’t mind if it’s not all of the time, but since I rarely ever get to know about them, I just can’t stand it. 🙁

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