They told me this would be the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life, and I’m finding they were right. I was never one to purge before I started recovering from this disorder. I didn’t expect butterflies and rainbows, but I expected things to be easier this far in. I’m 18 months […]Continue reading "It’s okay to be just okay."
Real talk: I had no idea what the future held in 2019. This past year was very much lived in the present, mostly with me trying to figure out how I was expected to be an adult and find my own place to live when I only recently learned I had to build credit because […]Continue reading "Farväl 2019!"
I’m home! You probably don’t know this — because I didn’t advertise it — but I went away from home during the second week of this month, staying with the family I nanny for to help the dad out. Unaware of the family’s stance on the LGBTQ+ community, I’ve run into many situations where I’ve […]Continue reading "Jane Lately #50: Closet cull & adulting"
In June 2019, I stepped into my swimsuit and a pool for the first time since 2012. Before then, I hadn’t swam for about five years. Where I live now is the beginning of the block, at the end of which is a pool exclusively for this neighborhood. It’s a long walk, which is honestly […]Continue reading "Learning to swim again"
Somewhere along the way, I was too excited about the idea of moving out of my paternal grandmother’s house in exchange for more freedoms and getting closer to total independence that I didn’t realize what I was actually getting myself into. I’ve traded my why-nots in for because-I-said-sos, against my wishes to never pull the […]Continue reading "Jane Lately v.47: WTFBBQ"
How long has it been since I shared about the mundanities of my life? Although not yet completely, I moved into the new house with Charlise & Fam, so I can make sure the boys don’t burn the house down whilst she’s away with the intended parents (IPs) for her surrogate child. It’s me, two […]Continue reading "Welcome to the circus"
What happens when personal style causes others to think we dress for the male gaze, aim to steal their boyfriends, and are anything but modest?Continue reading "The unintended implication of dressing for the male gaze"
Change in priorities.Continue reading "Jane Lately v.45"
I had an epiphany while lying on my not-so-deathbed.Continue reading "F*ck the zero-waste movement."