Touch aversion is valid and should be respected, regardless of the reason.

I didn’t like touch as an autistic person. I didn’t like touch as a post-abuse victim. I didn’t like touch as a sexual assault victim. Each of those three categories deal with different kinds of touch, but the aftermath is the same — touch makes me cringe. I don’t want it. I’m okay if it’s […]

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Goodbye, 2020

To quote Avenue Beat, low-key fuck 2020. It’s been a long year. I published less than 50 posts this year, just barely 30,000 words, on the blog, and…I’m not even bothered. 2020 was comprised of nonstop hypothetical situations featuring a pre- and post-apocalyptic experience — and both, and the in-between, is the whole fucking year. […]

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Returning to routine

Routine. God, I hate that word. All my life, it’s haunted me. You need a routine so you’ll have control in your life. That’s a lie. Routines offer predictability, not control. You’re a captive to the routine, conditioned to believe it offers you control when it really offers you chains. I should know. I’m autistic. […]

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You know the before-snack snack? That’s what this theme is.

The amazing Georgie is designing for me a theme. 2020 is shit, and my theme was bugging the crap out of me, de-inspiring me to write anything here. We don’t give our themes enough credit, ’cause when we get tired of ’em, there is nothing that drives a wedge between us and our blogs more. […]

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A list of things bloggers shouldn’t talk about

There are a lot of unspoken rules about blogging, including when it comes to what you can supposedly blog about. Examples include: sex politics periods sex toys sex-positivity providing the youth with condoms alternatives to abstinence first world problems porn boudoir Cards Against Humanity what our lives are REALLY LIKE, behind the beautiful photos façade […]

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Common Amish fiction tropes that have little to do with the Amish

Amish fiction is the kind of fiction I read when I want something wholesome, old and filled with drama and tropes. I haven’t read it in a while, because I realized I preferred the stories based on reality that are told in movie form, because of certain common Amish fiction tropes. 1. Christian fiction Christian […]

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